How to Forgive Yourself For Past Mistakes (8 Steps) Print Friendly or Save as PDF May 21st, 2020 By Aletheia Luna Guest writer for Wake Up World Shame is the cancer of the psyche. It eats away at us slowly, tainting everything we experience with its dark glow of self-loathing . And it all stems from a lack of self-forgiveness. Have you ever said, done, or thought something truly horrible? Have you ever: betrayed someone you loved overstepped a boundary you thought you’d never cross, or intentionally inflicted harm upon yourself (or another)? If you’re human, I can guarantee that you’ll say an almost immediate yes . And don’t worry, you’re not alone. We have all been there to differing degrees. You’re not a monster, you’re just a flawed and wounded human being. While I’m not here to excuse anything you’ve done (self-responsibility is crucial), I am here to be a voice of compassion. Hating yourself won’t make anything better. It’s...